My Touching Hurricane Sandy Story

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(A photo I snapped while out in Staten Island’s New Dorp/Midland Beach neighborhood)

When the winds started picking up here in Manhattan on Monday I quickly realized this wasn’t going to be as calm as Hurricane Irene was last year. Around 1 o’clock in the afternoon I ran to the grocery store for a few last minute items then swiftly returned so I could take my pup for one more walk before the weather got too bad.

As I walked out the back door of my apartment building with Meeko I noticed a few different sized bags and suitcases on the ground at the bottom of the ramp. Completely puzzled as to why someone would just leave them there, I shrugged to myself and kept walking. Once I got to the end I saw a man struggling to gather the bags. Once he noticed me, he looked up immediately and said, “Excuse me but do you know if there’s a shelter close by?” The only thing I could think of was the synagogue two blocks south of my apartment where I’ve seen a soup kitchen line, so I told him to try there.

Meeko started pulling back towards the apartment after quickly handling his business so I ran back to get him out of the increasingly strong winds. Living in New York City, I’m accustomed to encountering homeless people on a daily basis, but for some reason I could not shake the look in this man’s eyes. Upon entering my apartment I ran to my laptop and googled “hurricane shelters in nyc,” typed the closest location into my phone and ran out of my apartment.

At this point the rain had picked up tremendously and the wind felt like it was getting worse by the minute. I made it down to the synagogue as fast as I could and as I turned the corner I saw the same man pressed with his back to the door, both hands full of bags, bracing himself from the wind. I walked right up to him, reached out for some of his bags and said, “Sir, I’m going to put you in a taxi to take you to a Hurricane Shelter.” He looked right into my eyes with a little confusion but overwhelming emotion and simply said, “Thank you, you’re an angel.” We walked a block over to Broadway and I started trying to hail a cab. I was so worried no one would stop but to my surprise the first open cab slowly pulled up and rolled down his window. Leaning in I handed him a twenty dollar bill and asked him to please take this man to the Hurricane shelter downtown. He looked straight at me and said, “You have a big heart young lady” and I responded by saying, “I couldn’t just leave him outside in this.” The cab driver jumped out and helped us put all 7 bags in the trunk. The man just kept thanking me over and over again. I told him to be safe and take care, thanked the cab driver and turned back towards my building. Tears immediately started falling down my face.

I’m not an angel but I am thankful that I was able to help someone in need. That experience last Monday will stay with me forever. We all know the devastation Sandy caused to buildings, homes and subway stations…I can’t imagine what would have happened to a person without shelter.

Rebuilding After Hurricane Sandy

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After several failed attempts at finding places to volunteer through internet searches, my husband and I headed out to Staten Island with a carful of necessities (packages of socks, gloves, hats, industrial strength trash bags, paper towels, etc.). We didn’t really have a plan, a group to join once we got there or even a specific organization to team up with. We just wanted to help in any way we could. Upon arriving to the New Dorp/Midland Beach area we found what worked for us. We carried as much as we could and simply started walking the streets, offering everything we had to anyone we saw. Our items went quickly and we made several trips back and forth to our car. We returned the very next day after work and did the same thing. I was able to snap some photos with my phone although the devastation can’t really be captured. What we saw is unimaginable damage.

Here is some info that I’ve learned through my experience over the past few days and helpful links I’ve found…

*What we found to be the most needed (and appreciated) items:

  • socks!!! (new)
  • gloves (work/rubber/cold weather)
  • beanies/skull caps/cold weather hats
  • blankets
  • industrial strength trash bags
  • cleaning supplies (windex/mops/all-purpose/etc)
  • toiletries (toothpaste/tooth brushes/feminine products/shampoo/soap/etc)

*Donation centers are OVERWHELMED with clothes!!!! We drove by a parking lot that was just filled with bags of clothes.

*People need help cleaning and removing things from their basements and homes. Dress comfortably and head out with a shovel to help someone! Some elderly people could really use the help!

Links to helpful info/ways you can contribute:

*I will keep updating my Facebook page, Twitter feed & Instagram (@TODANEWYORK) with anything that I come across!

Doesn’t matter what you do, just do what you can! Donating your time is sometimes worth more than donating money! Let’s do this…let’s rebuild NY & NJ!!!

Rest

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Ocean side of the Four Season’s Resort in Bora Bora

Feeling overwhelmed is an emotion most of us generally experience from time to time. For me it is completely unsettling and can be destructive to my health. I tend to look at every line on my to-do list and every engagement as being equally important – because to me they all are. Usually I’ll put on a happy face and push through it all, somehow managing to juggle everything seamlessly to the outside world.

The last thing I ever want to do is slap random content on this blog just for the sake of not missing a post. So I’ve decided that I’m going to stop stressing and just rest. I’ll enjoy my last week of summer in the Hampton’s with my hubby & amazing friends. Following Labor Day, the IFB Conference (which I’m super excited about), Fashion Week, and a trip to Chicago, I plan on coming back with lots of fresh new content. I’ll be launching TODA TOUGH, a new section of the blog dedicated to health & fitness among other collaborations.

Until then, I’ll leave you with some photos that put a smile on my face no matter what. I hope everyone enjoys the last bit of August and has a great holiday weekend!

Art from the 2010 Elephant Parade in London

Our New York Times inspired wedding program that my in-laws recently framed for us

London ice cream trucks are so different than what I grew up with

My little man, Meeko, in his life vest ready for a swim

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